Iīm so beyond PO..
so my MIL called me to tell me.. "why donīt you leave the kid with us?".. ok.. seriously what??!!.. well... because heīs MY kid.. why would I even think of that?...
itīs not like they are not seeing him.. or wonīt be seeing him.. I told her my "plan" was for him to go to school all week.. then on the weekend he could go sleepover there.. so they also had time with him.. IMO sounds reasonable..
well.. yesterday they offered to take him for ice cream and a much needed haircut.. I agreed.. when they came back.. my boy asked me if he could stay over there that night.. I agreed again.. as long as he had finished his homework.. he did..
so today they took him to school.. everything was "ok".. until recently when I got a call from my FIL.. saying that he already asked for what he wanted to eat today.. so I assumed he meant he was just eating with them.. but then asked some clothes for him for tomorrow as heīs staying with them again and said "so he doesnīt gets confused".. confused??.. why would he be...
I really donīt get these people.. but then again I donīt wanna fight with them for all weīve been lately.. but come on.. I really find no reasoning behind this... at all..
I understand if they want to spend more time with him.. but he has a mom.. and has a routine to follow (school, homework, sleep early, etc).. then on weekends he can go over and get spoiled.. is that too hard for them to comprehend?.. apparently so..
I know if my hubby was here.. heīd back me up.. I without any doubt know it..
since forever they also asked him to "give" him up to them.. really??!!.. why would any of us would just give our kid to them just like that.. no way!!.. no way!!
Iīm gonna have to step up and suck it up..when they come for clothes Iīm gonna have to say no.. sorry but no..
oh man.. why does it ever gets this tough with inlaws...
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