Dear Gayle, I'm sorry to be so late responding to your message. I've had a lot of trouble getting onto Pet Talk for quite a while.
How are things for you and Cali now? Have you gotten a feline companion for her? And if so, how has that been working out so far?
In case you're still not sure what to do.. I've found when I added a new cat to my two-cat family, it worked best to keep the new one in one room. The current cat will know something is going on in there, there is someone in there that she/he is not feeling particularly welcoming to. Give the current one lots of attention to reassure her that she is not being upstaged. Then introduce them in stages. Let the new one out for a bit, and see how they interact. Put the new one back in his/her room (her safe place) when things get tense. They may not become best-buddies, but they'll eventually get used to each other's presence. Give each the time she needs to feel reassured.
Do you have a local shelter at which you could meet adoptable cats? I'm sure the people running it will be very thorough in helping you find a fine new cat or kitten companion for Cali and you. And be sure and check out their policy if the adoption just does not work out. A good, reputable shelter will take the cat back.
Best wishes to you and Cali and your new kitty family member whenever that adoption might happen! Please keep us posted!
Cheers!
- Pat
Purrrs!
- Sparkler and Tinker
I meant," said Ipslore bitterly, "what is there in this world that truly makes living worthwhile?"
Death thought about it.
CATS, he said eventually. CATS ARE NICE.
-- Terry Pratchett (1948—2015), Sourcery
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