We are in total agreement on the concept of "forbid." I never heard my mother ask permission and since reaching the age of independence...neither have I. Just the thought of my husband "forbidding" sends chills down my feminist spine.
Marriage is far, far more difficult than I ever thought it would be (and made more so in my case by my "advanced" age and inherent independence and stubbornness.) The complexities are daunting -- and yet looked so minor when I was "on the other side...."
Of course, if we wanted to get into semantics we could discuss whether someone can be "forced" or "forbidden" at all or whether there is always a choice...oh, on second thought...let's not. Pettalk after all!
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