I have emailed the writer of this story that was in my local newspaper. I would like to help this mother and son this Christmas. Her story really touched me. My family has everything they need; I'd rather spend my Christmas money on someone with hard luck. I'll let you know when the writer responds in case anyone else wants to help her out. Anyways, I just thought I'd share.
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Mom living in world of woe
Stolen car latest blow for Modesto stroke survivor and Down syndrome son
Colleen Joyce and her son, Jack, are without their car after it was stolen from their driveway. She has been renting a car, but won't be able to afford it for long.
MARTY BICEK/THE BEE
By ROGER W. HOSKINS
BEE STAFF WRITER
It had been another difficult week in a difficult life.
Colleen Joyce, a 32-year-old single mother from Modesto, arose early Nov. 19, just three days after her grandmother's death. She was getting a head start on her day's chores so she could go to "Nanni's" funeral in the foothills near Jackson.
She opened the door with her right hand, her left hand useless because of a stroke, and then removed the padlock on the gate that led to her garage and front yard. She walked with a limp, her left leg adorned with a metal brace covered by a boot.
Joyce expected to see her gray and brown 1987 Chevrolet Celebrity in its spot in the driveway where she left it after friends had helped her unload groceries the night before.
But the car was gone. She would discover later that the keys had been left in the car.
The thieves stole more than her car, wallet, checkbook, car seat and child leash. In essence, they stole her keys to the world. They stole her life.
Joyce is literally at the end of her rope. "I'm starting to panic. The car was junk, but it's not like I can get on a bus."
She gets up early every morning because getting her 4-year-old son, Jack, who has Down syndrome, ready for the day takes time.
"Jack knows that he can run faster than me," Joyce said. If Jack is cooperating, she can get him bathed, dressed and fed in about an hour.
But first she has to get herself ready. One time when she got Jack ready first, she paid for it.
"I got out of the shower and he was playing in the fireplace," she said. "He was covered with ashes. His bath looked like lye."
She said Jack is the reason she learned how to drive and got a car.
"Can you see me trying to take my baby on a bus?" she asked. "I only have one hand. I can't control him and carry groceries."
The car theft left her scrambling to find transportation.
To get a rental car took almost every cent she had left in the house. And she said it was still only because the agency was understanding and let her have a preferred customer deal that she could rent a car at all.
"I cancelled all my accounts. I had $221 in cash," Joyce said. "I had to pay $20 for my DMV printout just so I could rent a car. I put down $200 (deposit) for the car. I had $1 left so I got a bottle of water," Joyce said.
The car has to go back to the rental agency Friday. She can't afford it any longer.
On the lookout
She has become her own detective, cruising west Modesto's streets and alleys looking for her car. She thought she spotted it Sunday.
"By the time I took the baby home and came back, the car was gone again," she said.
The thief or thieves left a clue behind when they stole the car.
"They left me a bike. I guess they didn't need it any more. The bastards!"
Joyce can't use the bicycle because of the weakness in her left side. She turned it over to police, hoping a handprint or fingerprint could lead officers to the car or the culprit who took it.
Her rent accounts for more than half of the $1,450 monthly government allotments she receives for herself and her son. The rest of the money goes to utilities and food.
Joyce said she does not want to stay on Social Security because "this government job doesn't pay much." But she said she has no choice as long her son's care requires so much time.
"When Jack goes to school, I want to get a job," Joyce said. She is uncertain what she will or can do. Before her stroke she was a model for Venus Swimwear.
Her brain 'flooded'
But the course she had planned changed in January 1997. "First my home on Robertson Road was flooded and then it was my brain that flooded."
Her problem was caused by a hereditary enlargement of arteries in her brain. That was what required surgery after the stroke. After rehabilitation had restored much of her strength on the left side, a second brain surgery took it away again.
She said she doesn't think she will ever recover.
"I can lift my left arm, but I can't do anything with my hand," she said.
Her son loves watching "The Wiggles" with her and Jack laughs at mom's feeble attempts to clap and dance. Playing with his toy balls and trucks are other favorite pastimes. "He has trouble with catching, but he loves to kick and throw," mom said.
And when he would have a bad night, Joyce would pack him up in the car and take him for a drive. Jack would always settle down and go to sleep easily.
And after Friday, if she no longer has a car, what will Joyce do then?
"Life has given me a lot of lemons," said Joyce, whose father died in a motorcycle accident when she was 3. "I'll make some more lemonade. I'm getting good at it."
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