Help!! My boyfriend's cat hates me...

[moosmom]

I think Auggie is right. She might smell your dog's scent on you. Do you have any history on her? Was she maybe abused by a woman??? Or maybe she's just very attached to your bf. In either case, I think cat treats are in order. Good luck.

Years ago (at least 20 if not more) I hated cats. My Dad's cat Jessie hated me. When Dad and my stepmother got married, I cared for Jessie for a week while they were on their honeymoon. I took care of her at my apt. (bad idea as cat's do not like change). She hid under my waterbed and would hiss and growl at me when I attempted to pet her. She was a true bitch.

[catmandu]

You Will Just Have To Be Patient , With Her And Be A Friend To Her, And She Will Eventually Come Around To Be Your Friend.

[Shelteez2]

I think Auggie is right. She might smell your dog's scent on you. Do you have any history on her? Was she maybe abused by a woman??? Or maybe she's just very attached to your bf. In either case, I think cat treats are in order. Good luck.

Years ago (at least 20 if not more) I hated cats. My Dad's cat Jessie hated me. When Dad and my stepmother got married, I cared for Jessie for a week while they were on their honeymoon. I took care of her at my apt. (bad idea as cat's do not like change). She hid under my waterbed and would hiss and growl at me when I attempted to pet her. She was a true bitch.

My bf adopted her from the spca when she was approx 4 months old. She is 2 years old now. Who knows what happened in her first 4 months of life. I will keep trying to be patient and let her come to me.

Thanks for the advice.