Thanks for the suggestions everybody.

I am not above bribing so I will try the treats. My one cat likes them a lot.

Beatle (my bf's cat) has not met my dogs, as his place is too small and I wouldn't do that to her. There's no where she could really get away. He thought she was reacting to the smell of dog too, but I always smell like dogs (I'm a dog groomer) and she didn't do this at first....

I will try taking some treats over and see if that helps. Thanks for all help.