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    5 year old accused of sexual harrassment

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    Wednesday December 20, 2006
    School accuses 5-year-old of sex harassment
    by ERIN CUNNINGHAM
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    HAGERSTOWN - A kindergarten student was accused earlier this month of sexually harassing a classmate at Lincolnshire Elementary School, an accusation that will remain on his record until he moves to middle school.


    Washington County Public Schools spokeswoman Carol Mowen said the definition of sexual harassment used by the school system is, "unwelcome sexual advances, request for sexual favors and/or other inappropriate verbal, written or physical conduct of a sexual nature directed toward others."


    Mowen said that definition comes from the Maryland State Department of Education.


    According to a school document provided by the boy's father, the 5-year-old pinched a girl's buttocks on Dec. 8 in a hallway at the school south of Hagerstown.


    Charles Vallance, the boy's father, said he was unable to explain to his son what he had done.


    "He knows nothing about sex," Vallance said. "There's no way to explain what he's been written up for. He knows it as playing around. He doesn't know it as anything sexual at all."


    The incident was described as "sexual harassment" on the school form.


    School officials consider a student's age and the specific action when determining what administrative action to take, Mowen said.


    Lincolnshire Principal Darlene Teach and Mowen said they were unable to discuss he incident involving the Lincolnshire student.


    Teach said any student, regardless of grade level, can be cited for sexual harassment.


    "Anytime a student touches another student inappropriately, it could be sexual harassment," Teach said.


    School administrators at a Texas school in November suspended a 4-year-old student for inappropriately touching a teacher's aide after the prekindergarten student hugged the woman.


    "It's important to understand a child may not realize that what he or she is doing may be considered sexual harassment, but if it fits under the definition, then it is, under the state's guidelines," Mowen said. "If someone has been told this person does not want this type of touching, it doesn't matter if it's at work or at school, that's sexual harassment."


    The incident will be included in the boy's file while he remains at Lincolnshire, but Mowen said those files do not follow students when they move on to middle school.


    She described the incident as a "learning opportunity."


    During the 2005-06 school year, 28 kindergarten students in Maryland were suspended for sex offenses, including sexual assault, sexual harassment and sexual activity, according to state data. Fifteen of those suspensions were for sexual harassment.


    During the 2005-06 school year, one Washington County prekindergarten student was suspended from school, and 12 of the county's kindergartners were suspended for various offenses, according to state data.
    Anyone else think this is totally unnessecary? I mean YES inappropriate behaviour should be dealt with but to suspend a 5 year old child for something he doesn't even understand? The article says 28 Kindergarten students have been suspended so far. How sad. These kids must be so confused.

    One part says a child was reprimanded for hugging a teachers aide.... when did that become inappropriate? If you don't want kids hugging you then you shouldn't be a teachers Aide.... afterall you are helping them learn new things and they look up to you. They should be prepared for affectionate children. I'm sure that child hugs his mom and dad and his friends and I am pretty sure it is NOT sexual. I'm very disappointed with this.




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    LOLOLOLOLOL,

    Sexual harrassment?


    Please......


    At least it won't go on his permanent record.

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    Wow that's just ridiculous... I remember in the 1st grade I gave my teacher a kiss goodbye on the last day of school(on the cheek) and often kiss my friends goodbye(on the cheek). In no way was it meant to be sexual. It's just my way of saying goodbye.

    I'll be darned if my little sister gets suspended for hugging someone.
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    this is beyond rediculous...this is down right outragous. I mean come on you are talking about a 5 year old. They copy what they see adults do how the hell does the child know it is not "correct" if adults do it and laugh? Society has really taken some things WAY too far and this is definately one of them.


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    Reminds me of the people sueing McDonalds because they're fat. I mean, Totally not his fault.

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    That's just assinine. How ridiculous is that? We have kids bringing guns and knives to school and we are worried about a 5 year old who has no concept of what's going on.

    I did find this quote interesting though:

    According to a school document provided by the boy's father, the 5-year-old pinched a girl's buttocks on Dec. 8 in a hallway at the school south of Hagerstown.


    Charles Vallance, the boy's father, said he was unable to explain to his son what he had done.


    Why can't he just tell the kid it's not nice to pinch someone's backside and leave it at that for now?


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    Quote Originally Posted by mugsy
    Why can't he just tell the kid it's not nice to pinch someone's backside and leave it at that for now?
    For me it seems the father couldn't tell the child because it is posssibly a habit the father has with the mother or girlfriend and just doesn't know how to tell him it is not nice to do to people when he himself does it.

    Just a thought.


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    then every basketball, football, baseball, soccer, etc. players woulde be doing the same?? .....come on people......there is a certain line between play and harrasment..........and a kid no way knows that........

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    This is so STUPID. As the guardians and teachers of these young children, we're supposed to be teaching them appropriate and inappropriate touching. Jeez! How is suspending a kindergarten child going to teach them anything about appropriate and inappropriate touch? It's just going to confuse and scare them. What a sadistic move on the school's part!

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    Wow, guess I should start screaming rape everytime Gwyneith put her head or hand on my boobs

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    Hahaha that's so stupid,

    Come on the kid is only 5 haha, uhh .. what next .....

    News alert!

    A 7 year old girl was suspened for drawing a banana that looked wrong!,

    The parents had no comment, but the teachers where shocked!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Argranade
    Hahaha that's so stupid,

    Come on the kid is only 5 haha, uhh .. what next .....

    News alert!

    A 7 year old girl was suspened for drawing a banana that looked wrong!,

    The parents had no comment, but the teachers where shocked!

    LOL I wouldn't be surprised
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    I'm just a tad bit confused here- the child doesn't understand what happened, so how is he expected to know what kind of of behavior is wrong?

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    Lets give the kid a complex.

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