I was thinking about this as I drove to work today.. How hubby & I are so different yet we complement each other so well .
Then I start making a list & smile at every one of them . It's truly amazing how love works, it creates ONE union out of two completely different people, so that one person will have what the other lacks, so that in binding their lives together, they become complete!
Here are a few on our list. We do have a lot in common, but that'll be discussed in a different thread.
1) Hubby is a morning person, I'm a night person. Everyday he wants to go to bed when I'm still pretty much active & have things to do, every morning, he springs out of bed full of energy, then proceeds to drag me out of bed otherwise I'll be late for work
2) Hubby is an extreme on-timer. I used to always be late! After I married him, I (have no other ways but) to change!, now WE're always on time!
3) Hubby is a quiet, soft-spoken, slow paced person. I'm totally opposite. I'm loud, talkative & fast! He reminds me to slow down when I'm too fast, and be my listener when I talk , while I make our household ... lively with all my chattings lol. (Whenever he complains that I talk too much, I told him that if he'd married someone who's shy and quiet, their house would be dead quiet like a ... cemetary! LOL )
4) Hubby is super neat & clean, he likes everything organized and dust-free, and become restless when he sees clusters, while I can live happily with a little clustering & dusty stuffs . The good thing is, if he sees something he wants to clean or tidy up, he does it himself so I'm NOT complaining Well, that's why our house is pretty much always spotless! I do warn him about babies and the mess they make, so he won't be having a heart attack everytime our little girl throws something to the floor
5) Hubby is a planner. He likes to plan everything ahead of time and stick to it, while I'm more spontaneous & laid back. I react to and accept changes & unplanned happenings to our plans much better than he does. I helped him lots in this aspect.. Now he's just like how I wanted him to be!
Now it's your turn to think about how you & your significant other are different, yet complement each other so well, and share them with us - so that we can all be in Thanksgiving mood together
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